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Miso Horny Sex Talk and Sushi

Talking Openly About Sex

Lisa Concepcion Miso Soup Obba Sushi

Miso Horny Sex Talk and Sushi!! Recently I was invited to try Obba Sushi in Coral Gables, a lovely town in Miami, Florida. Sushi is always a very sexy meal to share. There’s a whole process. You have the soy sauce with the wasabe that you have to set up yourself. Then it’s the ginger. Some people like the ginger after a course, some like it on top of their sushi bite. We like what we like and want what we want. All of this food foreplay got me thinking about talking openly about sex with our partners.

Talking openly about sex can be a bit awkward for some people. I’m a gregarious bold person. I mean look at the title of this blog. Miso Horny Sex Talk With Sushi? Really? Yeah. I’m into pleasures. Yet, talking openly about sex can be a little intimidating even to a wordsmith like me. So how do I get over my sex talk issues? Well, I look at the discussion as I would a meal. There are different courses and with each course you share more and more about what you like and why. You begin the meal with the intention of enjoying it. So, approach talking about sex the same way. The ultimate goal is pleasure!

Course one. The Miso SoupObba Sushi Miso Soup

Obba sushi’s miso soup was easily the top 5 miso soups I have had in my life. I’m from New York where it is freezing 8 months of the year. I know about great soup. Since moving to blazing hot Miami, soup is a rare treat. However, when it comes to sushi, edamame and miso soup is part of the foreplay. I love me some good miso soup and Obba’s is top notch. I’ll eat Obba’s miso soup on a 95 degree Miami day in July.

Foreplay!

Ok so back to the sex. What do you do when you want more or different kinds of foreplay? I mean how do you discuss mixing things up? I posted this question on my personal Facebook wall and a friend suggested to look up “bdsm consent agreement.” The idea is to get the bdsm list then, as a couple, discuss what will be agreed upon. It’s very Fifty Shades of Grey but I would imagine this very long list of sexual positions, and more adventurous sexual options would make for some stimulating conversation. Imagine you, your partner, a laptop or iPad in bed with some sushi eating together in bed and talking sex. Could make for a sexy Friday night. I’ll add that Obba Sushi in Coral Gables has delivery and pick up –wink wink.

Courses Two, Three and Four and Sexual Appreciation. 

The dining experience at Obba Sushi was fantastic because just when one tasty dish was finished another one arrived. The pacing of the dishes was excellent. We marveled at the amazing spread placed in front of us. I appreciated it! I really really really appreciated it. When talking openly about sex it’s important to be appreciative of the great things your partner does. Compliment them. Tell them what you like and what you want more of. Set the intention to be loving and kind and not judgmental and critical. I’m big into kissing. I love the kissing. Kissing and eye contact. Yes please, hot like wasabe and a soft tongue.

Obba Sushi Coral Gables

Commit to a no negativity rule when talking about sex. Sex is good. Talking about sex is good. There’s no crying and no fighting when there’s sex talk. However, I may stick my chopstick in your hand for the last piece of hamachi jalapeño. Obba Sushi’s was seriously delicious. All that heat in my mouth. Yeah, well, you know.

Obba Sushi Hamachi Jalapeno

Don’t forget Dessert. 

Remain focused on the end goal which to have a fantastic sex life. I’m one of those people who enjoys sex more when there’s a huge emotional attachment to it. I’ve had my share of fast food, or potato chip sex. I mean, it’s fine. It satisfies a craving. However, emotionally connected sex is like the sweetest most satisfying, eyes roll back in your head, fist banging table kind of sex. Obba creates that same food porn experience with their Thai donuts. Do NOT leave the restaurant without eating these. They truly are the climax to the meal.

Obba Sushi Thai Donuts

Ok so there you have it a sexy review of amazing food from a great sushi spot; Obba Sushi in Coral Gables, Florida and some tips on how to handle talking openly about sex. Great food and great sex and two of life’s greatest pleasures. May you thoroughly enjoy both.

Lisa Concepcion is the founder of LoveQuest Marketing, a personal development firm that applies proven marketing techniques and tactics to teach people how to find, give and keep love. Based in Miami, Florida; Lisa is a self proclaimed “Love Strategist” who offers group workshops, one-on-one sessions and writes and speaks on the topic of dating, relationships and individual betterment. Connect with Lisa via LoveQuestMarketing.com  and via twitter @lisatakesmiami .

Photo credit: Robert W. Rodriguez

 

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